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October 23, 2019

Everybody’s Busy: Don’t Miss the Important

I LOVE CHAMBER & ASSOCIATION WORK.

It is and has been a great career; but let’s be honest, this business can have many pitfalls.

While this work can be hugely rewarding, it can also be demanding, all-encompassing, and if you let it, maybe even addicting to the point that, unfortunately, for MANY, it’s VERY tough to balance your business with your personal life.

It’s been said that chamber and association CEOs could work 24 or 48 straight hours and would still never be caught up. The next day would be just as busy, demanding and time consuming. The work is NEVER done.

Part of the addictive quality of being a chamber or association CEO is you are “in the know.” You are a community and/or industry insider. You have position power. You can open doors. Your phone calls get returned a lot quicker than others. Let’s face it, you ARE one of the “cool kids” in town.

When you combine this position power with all the work that needs to be done, it’s easy to see how, if you don’t have your act together, things could go terribly wrong with your personal life.

A skill that execs need to quickly master is being able to shut it down and walk away from work without feeling guilty. Give yourself permission to NOT be so absorbed in your work that you miss the things that REALLY matter – anniversaries, birthdays, school plays, ball games, grand kids and other important memorable moments.

There will always be another meeting.

You need to make sure that you are present for important family functions – MANY only happen once and years later you will regret not being there.

It’s absolutely true… “Nobody on their deathbed wishes they’d spent more time at the office”

One of the keys to being a successful chamber CEO is getting control of your calendar.

Author and business consultant Tom Peters emphasizes this point, “Your calendar NEVER lies. All we have is our time. Your calendar knows what you really care about. Do you?”

I strongly suggest that you make sure you don’t miss the “important” by getting so wrapped up in things that seem to be “urgent”.

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Dave Kilby, IOM
Faculty, Institute for Organization Management
Executive Vice President, Corporate Affairs, California Chamber of Commerce

Dave is Executive Vice President, Corporate Affairs for the California Chamber. He also serves as President and CEO of the Western Association of Chamber Executives (W.A.C.E.), the largest state or regional chamber executives professional development association in the United States with over 850 members throughout the Western United States. Kilby joined the California Chamber in December 1988 after several successful years as a local chamber CEO. During his first eleven years with CalChamber, he served as the Chamber’s lobbyist on land use, economic development, and housing issues. Dave is a graduate of California State University, Fresno with a degree in political science and journalism and is a graduate of the U.S. Chamber Foundation’s Institute program. He is a past chair of the West Institute Board of Regents and is currently a member of the U.S. Chamber’s Committee of 100 and Public Affairs Committee. He’s also a self-described Disney, trivia, and movie nut. Dave and his wife Kim have three grown children.
Follow Dave on Twitter: @DaveKilbyWACE.

Comments

  1. Jennifer Pauly says

    October 25, 2019 at 7:18 am

    Excellent advice and timely for myself and my family. With a staff of just two of us, balancing work/ life is tough!

    My four kids and husband often get the last straw.

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